You know you need to begin, you know that it will be good for you, the new exercise routine, career move, self-care routine or relationship.

You have been meaning to make the changes for some time now, but still here you are, in the same position, thinking the same thoughts.

You tell yourself you’ll start tomorrow. Then the next day. Then the one after that. A task that once felt simple, one that you wanted to start, you were so excited about, now feels heavy, almost too big to hold.

And in the background, a familiar whisper starts to build
“Why can’t I just get on with it?”
“What’s wrong with me?”

We have probably all been here, I know I have, but here’s the truth: nothing is wrong with you.

You aren’t broken, useless or lacking drive and motivation; all of these flaws you have been telling yourself.

Procrastination is not a flaw in your character; it’s a signal from a part of you that’s feeling overwhelmed, unseen, scared, or simply tired of pushing.

As women, we carry emotional and energetic loads that rarely get acknowledged. And when those loads build up, motivation naturally begins to fade.

Not because we don’t care, but because we’ve been caring for everything and everyone for too long without tending to ourselves.

The drive that was once there fades as everything else seems more important; your needs begin to take a back seat.

You begin to feel that you are stuck, lost, lacking purpose, and there is no way out of this mire. This is where a holistic approach changes everything.

Have you noticed thoughts creeping in now you are in your fifties, ones that ask, “Is this it?” I hear it often, from clients, friends, and even at times from myself.

Fifty is supposed to be a time of wisdom, freedom, and confidence. And yet, for many of us, it feels like a chapter closing, not opening.

Maybe it’s the views of society that say your prime has passed. Or the relentless social media reels of youth flooding your feed.

Or perhaps it’s because you mourn versions of you that never got to be. The career you didn’t pursue.

The relationship that didn’t bloom. The dreams you put to one side to deal with life’s responsibilities.

But here’s something I want to tell you: Feeling like life is over doesn’t mean it actually is.

This could be a sign that something exciting is evolving. The roles you have played in your life up to now are making way for something better.

Your life isn’t over. It’s pivoting. And in that pivot, there is adventure and power.

In fact, this chapter, this messy, questioning chapter, might be the first time life starts to feel like yours.

Are you someone who lives life to the full? Makes plans and sets goals and always has opportunities on the go?

Do you surround yourself with like-minded people and feel that you are getting the best out of your life? If this is you, then you are no doubt someone who has an active mindset.

An active mindset is a mental state characterized by a proactive and engaged approach to life. It involves being fully present in the current moment, taking the initiative to pursue goals, and maintaining a positive attitude towards challenges.

Individuals with an active mindset seek growth opportunities, view setbacks as learning experiences, and embrace change as a natural part of life.

This mindset prioritizes taking action, being resilient in the face of adversity, and continuously striving for personal development. By cultivating an active mindset, individuals can navigate life with purpose, passion, and a sense of empowerment.