Why You Can't Think Your Way Out of Feeling Stuck

Ten years ago, I started to get unstuck; I just didn't realise at the time that I was doing so. It was a gradual transition from the way I was living and thinking about my life. I knew I wanted something different, and I knew I couldn't carry on the way I was, but at the same time, I also felt as if I was in a dark, unfamiliar room trying to find the way out. I kept going round and round in my mind; I want something different, to feel different, but what?

How can I change when I need to keep moving forward? How can I possibly focus on just me when there are so many other people in my life vying for my attention? How can I possibly put myself first?

But the feelings didn't disappear with inaction, they got more uncomfortable and harder to ignore until I realised something had to change, and that's when I started to take control. I decided that I was worth investing in, and that meant I needed someone to show me the way out of that room.

That's the room most of the women I work with are standing in when they first come to me