You know you need to begin, you know that it will be good for you, the new exercise routine, career move, self-care routine or relationship.

You have been meaning to make the changes for some time now, but still here you are, in the same position, thinking the same thoughts.

You tell yourself you’ll start tomorrow. Then the next day. Then the one after that. A task that once felt simple, one that you wanted to start, you were so excited about, now feels heavy, almost too big to hold.

And in the background, a familiar whisper starts to build
“Why can’t I just get on with it?”
“What’s wrong with me?”

We have probably all been here, I know I have, but here’s the truth: nothing is wrong with you.

You aren’t broken, useless or lacking drive and motivation; all of these flaws you have been telling yourself.

Procrastination is not a flaw in your character; it’s a signal from a part of you that’s feeling overwhelmed, unseen, scared, or simply tired of pushing.

As women, we carry emotional and energetic loads that rarely get acknowledged. And when those loads build up, motivation naturally begins to fade.

Not because we don’t care, but because we’ve been caring for everything and everyone for too long without tending to ourselves.

The drive that was once there fades as everything else seems more important; your needs begin to take a back seat.

You begin to feel that you are stuck, lost, lacking purpose, and there is no way out of this mire. This is where a holistic approach changes everything.

Seasonal change can have a real impact on how we feel and function. It is more noticeable when the clocks are going back and daylight is disappearing earlier.

During this time, many people notice a dip in energy, motivation or mood. They can start to withdraw into themselves and can find it harder to get going, stay focused, and stay socially connected.

Although this is a situation that happens every year, many still find the transition difficult to cope with.

So, instead of pushing through or trying to ignore it, this is an opportunity to create a Hygge routine, a gentle, grounding approach that brings comfort, calm and steadiness to your everyday life.

You may well have heard of the concept of Hygge already. It comes from Danish culture, but you don’t need to live the Scandinavian lifestyle to practise it.

Hygge is simply about creating an environment and rhythm that supports your emotional well-being.

This is about feeling safe, nourished, rested and connected, not about creating a picture-perfect cosy aesthetic.

Do you ever get the feeling that you are stuck, as if you have hit the pause button on life? If you do, you’re not alone. So many women reach the point where they have done everything that they are “supposed” to do, you know, all of those societal expectations, built a career, raised a family, built the perfect home life, supported other people. Yet, they get to a stage where something feels off.

This could be how you are feeling at this moment as you are reading these words. You may be feeling lost, stuck, unfulfilled, or disconnected from the life you have spent so long building.

You may also be feeling like you have failed, as if all of those years spent up to now have been for nothing if you are feeling this way.

But this is what I want to tell you, and I want you to understand (coming from someone who has felt the same way). This isn’t failure. It’s a sign that you’re ready for change.

For growth and alignment. Your time is now, and it’s scary, but exciting!!

You may be feeling stuck in life at present. Unsure of where to go next, what direction to take.

The good news? You are reading this, and I have been on your journey, and now I help other women get to a point in their lives where they have found their direction and purpose.

You can make the changes you need to make in order to have the life you want. It’s there inside of you; you just need the tools to bring it out.

Have you been asking yourself, “How do I change my life for the better?” Do you want more from your life? Do you feel you are missing out on something and you want to start making changes?

If any of these questions resonate with you, you need to start looking at your life and make changes. This is a step-by-step process, that you can begin today.

Firstly, reflect on what aspects of your life you'd like to change and set clear, achievable goals.

Next, develop a plan that includes small, manageable steps toward these goals.

Practice self-discipline and maintain a positive mindset by focusing on progress rather than perfection.

Finally, surround yourself with supportive people who inspire and motivate you.

Are you at a point in your life at the moment where you feel stuck? Do you lack direction, and purpose and feel your life is unfulfilled but you have no idea how to make changes?

If this sounds familiar to you, you aren’t alone. These feelings are common to many people.

The feeling of being stuck is common but sometimes it can be difficult to pin it down to an actual cause.

Feeling stuck often manifests as a lack of motivation, indecision, or a sense of being overwhelmed.

You may experience frustration, restlessness, or feel like you’re on autopilot with little progress.

Common symptoms include procrastination, self-doubt, or feeling disconnected from your goals.

Recognizing these signs is the first step toward taking action to move forward.

Almost everyone will feel stuck at some time or other in their life. This is a natural state to be in and signifies that change is needed in your life. Most people will experience the same feelings emotionally and physically.

Are you someone who lives life to the full? Makes plans and sets goals and always has opportunities on the go?

Do you surround yourself with like-minded people and feel that you are getting the best out of your life? If this is you, then you are no doubt someone who has an active mindset.

An active mindset is a mental state characterized by a proactive and engaged approach to life. It involves being fully present in the current moment, taking the initiative to pursue goals, and maintaining a positive attitude towards challenges.

Individuals with an active mindset seek growth opportunities, view setbacks as learning experiences, and embrace change as a natural part of life.

This mindset prioritizes taking action, being resilient in the face of adversity, and continuously striving for personal development. By cultivating an active mindset, individuals can navigate life with purpose, passion, and a sense of empowerment.

Everyone needs to make decisions in life, whether they are big or small have huge consequences or are simple outcomes there’s no getting away from them.

Because of this, decision-making is a crucial skill that we need to learn due to its direct impact on the course of our lives.

Whether considering a career change, a change in relationship, a house move, or daily adjustment to routines, the process of decision-making requires thoughtful analysis, weighing of options, and consideration of potential outcomes.

To get the correct outcome therefore learning to strike a balance between logic in the situation and what your intuition is saying can often be key when navigating the complexities of decision-making.

We all experience many emotions during the day. But what happens if one recurring feeling keeps coming through? Especially if it is a negative one.

If you are someone who is feeling lost, sad or hopeless, you may find your whole life is being affected and you are struggling to cope.

Feeling sad and lost can stem from a variety of reasons. It could be due to undergoing a significant loss, facing major life changes, experiencing a lack of purpose or direction, feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities, or struggling with unmet expectations.

Do you have a good opinion of yourself? If you were to honestly say “ Yes I really like myself and I feel I have many great attributes” then you would undoubtedly think highly of yourself and be doing well in your world.

What if you have the opinion you are awful, no one likes you and you pretty much suck at everything in life, you would be saddled with highly toxic self-limiting beliefs and would probably not be doing as well as you could be.

These kinds of beliefs could cause you to self-sabotage everything you do in your life. But what exactly are self-sabotaging beliefs?

Do you know where you are going in your life? Have you made a plan, set goals or have a set direction all mapped out? Or are you like many women, adrift in your life wondering where you are going, what you are doing and what you want your life to look like?

Over the last few years, online life coaching has become more and more popular. People see the many benefits of using coaches when they are looking for ways to empower themselves and make major changes in their lives.

Life coaches can help you to set goals, and break down obstacles standing in your way of achieving what you want. They are there to give you guidance and support when you need it to challenge any negative thinking and to offer accountability for reaching desired outcomes.